Fix bootstrap bug

lib/features/common/connectivity/connectivity_controller.dart

@@ -90,8 +90,9 @@ class ConnectivityController extends _$ConnectivityController with AppLogger {
     final activeProfile = await ref.read(activeProfileProvider.future);
     await _core
         .start(activeProfile!.id, ref.read(disableMemoryLimitProvider))
-        .mapLeft((err) {
-      loggy.warning("error connecting $err", err);
+        .mapLeft((err) async {
+      loggy.warning("error connecting", err);
+      await ref.read(startedByUserProvider.notifier).update(false);
       state = AsyncError(err, StackTrace.current);
     }).run();
   }

lib/features/common/window/window_controller.dart

@@ -31,7 +31,7 @@ class WindowController extends _$WindowController
           await windowManager.hide();
         }
         await Future.delayed(
-          const Duration(seconds: 1),
+          const Duration(seconds: 3),
           () async {
             if (ref.read(startedByUserProvider)) {
               loggy.debug("previously started by user, trying to connect");

lib/features/system_tray/system_tray_controller.dart

@@ -30,7 +30,10 @@ class SystemTrayController extends _$SystemTrayController
       _initialized = true;
     }
 
-    final connection = await ref.watch(connectivityControllerProvider.future);
+    final connection = switch (ref.watch(connectivityControllerProvider)) {
+      AsyncData(:final value) => value,
+      _ => const Disconnected(),
+    };
     final serviceMode = ref.watch(serviceModeStoreProvider);
 
     final t = ref.watch(translationsProvider);